2022.01.23 11:33 nevermindmyg Friends are going on a vacation without me
So some of my friends are currently talking about a (semi)planned vacation in a groupchat which I am in. From what I know, they planned it in a discord call when I wasn’t present. I am not the only person not going but I am the only ACTIVE person not being included in any planning except from me knowing about it due to some vague messages in this groupchat. Due to my autism and these people living far away I often don’t go to gatherings (which happened about 7 times in the last 3 years, I attended once. I am mostly present in discord call). They are not accessible to me and the time that I went they went out of their way to make it accessible. Currently they don’t ask me to come anymore and I don’t want to impose so I don’t ask to come.
I don’t know what to make of this situation. I feel not great because they didn’t even think about including me in this but at the same time I didn’t go to their meetings so Idk if we are on that level. How would I go about talking to them about this.
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2022.01.23 11:33 Nhilist_Bigot Mind games? Or just complete indifference 😔
Hi! I (17M) and 'kelly' (17F) [this is NOT her real name] have been good friends for 3 years but recently a discussion with my best friend [17M] has made me question everything
Btw, I'm British and so I follow the British education system and not the US highschool system
Kelly and I met in in year 1 in Secondary School as classmates but only talked in year 2 initially over text.
I had a MAJOR crush on 'Tilly' in year 1 whom I had become really close friends with but never admitted to her. But she was quite clearly interested in one of our mutual friends and other guys so I gave up and we had a fall out for a couple of months. I still obviously liked her but I knew nothing was going to happen anyway.
Kelly and I became friends initially due to a few common interests like reading and animals and we found out that we lived really really close to each other (like 5 mins away). She also was asking about rearing pets and skating and I was able to answer since I had experience with both
We eventually became fairly close and I sort of rekindled my friendship with Tilly, and during this time, Tilly and Kelly became very close friends.
From Year 2 to Year 4, I stayed somewhat close with Tilly but didn't speak too much she and Kelly went to a different class, whereas I became quite close with Kelly and we even went to skate every few weeks or months. We texted quite often and called a few times, for hours on end.
At the end of Year 4, just before my national exams, I confessed to Tilly, that I liked her but didn't expect anything from her and that I wanted to keep our friendship as I valued that a lot, but just wanted to get it off my chest. She rejected me politely and was really nice about it, and oddly enough, we became even closer friends after that.
[This part gets weird pardon me please 😣] I had a crush on Kelly for a while during year 2-3 and felt really awkward about it at the start but after about a year it kinda faded because she constantly showed absolutely no signs of interest in me romantically and I felt like she just didn't care that much.
I taught her how to skate and lent her my board, and when we skated sometimes she would mention skating with other people and over time it made me feel somewhat jealous of them even insecure because I felt like I wasn't good enough for her.
Recently, around the time I confessed to Tilly, Kelly eventually withdrew, which was natural since we had our exams, but even after our exams we didn't meet up to skate and only went out once over a month after our exams.
So, I discussed this with George, my best mate, and he raised the point that she could have liked me and that when she found out that I confessed to Tilly, her best friend, she felt really upset and hence ghosted me.
I notice that when we skate and meet up in or out of school she's always averting her gaze and talks really fast and softly to herself, and I always thought that it was because she was bored of speaking with me or hanging out, but he said that it could also mean that she was nervous because she liked me?
He also said that she could be mentioning skating with other guys to make me jealous intentionally. Also, her close friend (also 17F) found out from her that we met up outside of school and teased me once or twice about her in class although we weren't even really friends. I could also sense that she teased Kelly once or twice in my presence.
George said that this could make sense as it meant that Kelly must have talked about me to her often enough for her to start shipping us and it explained the teasing, but I'm still not fully convinced??
However, despite all of this, I still think that she just doesn't genuinely like my company but is preserving our friendship because she feels guilty about leaving. I can't tell because she seems to be so indifferent to me, although George says that she could be masking her emotions in my presence. Kelly and I have even discussed crushes at some point and she says that she has never had one in 4 years of Secondary School. Is that realistic??
Long story short: my friend may have a crush on me, or doesn't like being friends and feels morally obliged to do so, and I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO 😭
P.S, this is technically the year 5 for me in sixth form, so the fallout between me and Kelly happened late year 4
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2022.01.23 11:33 hopefulkarma eating with new tongue piercing
hello! this friday i got my tongue pierced. it hurt like a bitch it did , i was in a lot of pain (yesterday was the WORST.) but today i’m on day three and the pain has subsided a lot. i haven’t been able to eat a lot. (so far i’ve had some broth , half a cup of soup, and the skins of some mcdonald’s nuggets.)
today is day three and im so hungry im in tears. would it be safe for me to eat eg instant noodles ? could i crush them up before? i had vermicelli w/ broth before and that worked fine , but i’m still very paranoid that i’ll lose my tongue or something if i eat something i shouldn’t.
despite my paranoia, i’m absolutely fucking starving and desperately need to hear some feedback on what should be ok for me to eat. i haven’t had a proper meal in over 48h, so i’m quite desperate at this point >___< i appreciate any replies!
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2022.01.23 11:33 demiculus Colonist.io Version 124 - Stripes Map
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2022.01.23 11:33 JevilDeltarune2000 HomeStuck characters sorted into Hogwarts houses (my opinion)
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2022.01.23 11:33 bozik_barani Chikatilo on vacation
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2022.01.23 11:33 Klusimo Just released my first game "Star Slimes" on Itch.io, if anyone would want to try it
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2022.01.23 11:33 Raghavavenkata Cute
2022.01.23 11:33 Win090949 Shou!
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2022.01.23 11:33 Same-Hunter845 Trying to sell a Mickey Mouse common “steamboat Willie jaunty jig” message me for info on it
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2022.01.23 11:33 otakugo Levi (Attack on Titan) vs Inosuke (Demon Slayer): Kiếm sĩ Thần tốc nào Chiến thắng?
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2022.01.23 11:33 RDX23 I don't have one but
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2022.01.23 11:33 Nyarthu What colour was Jim Morrison’s necklace?
2022.01.23 11:33 quackle-berry What food will make you happy today?
2022.01.23 11:33 Infamous_Hunter_6818 Any idea?
2022.01.23 11:33 JREfan1991 NFL Network has the packers losing on right now, if anyone wants to brighten their morning
2022.01.23 11:33 hangdong247 EA workers posting fake pictures to try and get you to waste your fodder on shit SBCs
2022.01.23 11:33 HUNTER2800 What’s a controversial music opinion that you have?
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2022.01.23 11:33 AhWaR_here Looking For Nfr bat dragon or mega owl. Offer is no potion shadow dragon mega queen bee ride only owl and fr evil unicorn
2022.01.23 11:33 Ren_GER Now weird Fox girl appeared out of no ware
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2022.01.23 11:33 Odd_Dance_9896 Just learning a new skill
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2022.01.23 11:33 __Positivity_ PSA - Dota is still broken[AfterLastPatch]
List of things which stopped working with recent bug updates:
- Some people lost the ability to see their own matches, they are forced to click load more with nothing coming up
- When reconnecting/sometimes even without you lose your ability to see indicators such as:
Camp range indicatior, Tower indicator, Spells cast range indicator, AOE indicator.
- Ability to download replays/See replays to be able to download them
To make this short, Valve fix your efing game, this have been persistant for about a month now cmon, a month some small bug fixes which are probably related to the steam deck/controller support being in place.
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2022.01.23 11:33 MountainGod420 Any folks from r/Nepal into NFTs?
there seem to be absolute zero talks of NFTs in this sub. How many of you here are into it? let's talk about NFT here in this thread and maybe share each other's collections/creations. with few people, we could even start a community, lemme know what ya'll think?
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2022.01.23 11:33 Lazy-Platypus-3388 Bloom Green Spring ,me,oil,2021
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